38

Turned 38 yesterday. 

Mak gave birth to me when she was 38, her 8th child. I'm 38 and I have no kids. 

Life is great and Allah has given me more than I deserved. 

Let me say that again, I am now 38, single and LOVIN' IT!

I 've been telling myself that I have my mom's genes so I put her 'getting last child at 38' as my bench mark. If I want to get married and have kids, I would have to do it BEFORE I turn 38. After that date, I might as well plan on keeping all my savings for a good full service nursing home.

Aaaaaanyway, on my 38th birthday I had breakfast with friends from Lincoln and spent the rest of the day with friends from high school. Had a great time, we just talk and talk and talk! you don't need anything else when you can talk endlessly (and we did that a lot over food!).

Alhamdulillah for the lovely friends... 

We stayed at Spices H0tel, a lovely boutique hotel on Lumut Lane in George Town and I received a birthday cake, on the house! 

If you're looking for a place to stay in George Town, I highly recommend Spices H0tel (click here to read more on the hotel). If you appreciate design and architecture, this is an awesome restoration of pre-war shophouses. 

Vanity

Out there, there are beautiful people.

Beautiful and attractive.

Being confident is beautiful... But when a person keeps posting selfies & photos of oneself on daily basis - that's not confidence, that's vanity.

Narcissism is not attractive. Neither is overexposure. 

December

There is something about December. I always feel apprehensive at the start of December. It is the month where my age will change and this whole thing about not achieving what I want in life comes back to haunt me. At least for 11 months a year, I accept that there are things that I cannot change, and some things are just meant to be the way they are now, but not for December. Every December for the past 10 years, things just kill me.... and I am my worst critic.

Gloria

I am fat & happy.

Will try to shed some weight. 

We'll see...

Eating is still my #1 pleasure. So how?

Prejudis

Bila single guy around my age mula pegi gym, badan ketak2, pakai baju ketat, pakai rantai and looking oh so metro... saya mula bertanya, 'straight ke tak dia ni?'.
Saya prejudis.

You, you look good. A lot better than the last time we met. I hope you're not swinging the other way. Na'uzubillah.

I wish you well.


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Kita kena mula buat kursus "ETIKA SOSIAL DAN KEBIJAKSANAAN MENGGUNAKAN TEKNOLOGI KOMUNIKASI TERKINI".

Ramai sangat yang kurang cerdik. Baca satu benda, tekan SHARE.

Baca satu benda, tekan FORWARD.

Tak kisah sumbernya dari mana.

Tak ada nak bertanya betul ke tidak.

Bulat-bulat terima. Telan segala. Kalau percaya dan duduk diam-diam tak apa, tapi tidak, percaya & SHARE.

Ayat paling best "aku tak tau betul ke tak, aku forward aje".

AKU RASA NAK PELANGKUNG ORANG2 MACAM NI.

Please, Allah bagi otak nak suruh pikir.
Allah bagi mulut dan suara untuk bertanya.
Allah jadikan manusia bijak & cipta teknologi supaya kita senang cari ilmu, tapi manusia makin ramai yg jadi tak cerdik.
Penat.
Penat nak membetulkan.

Sekian.



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I just want everyone to be happy :)

This morning I discovered that one of my stalker(s) got married last weekend. When I say stalkers, acik bukanler ramai peminat, kita bukannye Neelopak ke siapa-siapa. Tapi as I go through life adalah kadang-kadang orang yang 'nampak' kita tapi malangnya wavelength langsung tak sama. I just cannot accept the way they do things, or may be it was just me being the difficult person. I know I'm so hard to please. 

He was the one yg letak gambar cincin bagai on my FB wall when we have not even met. Some said it was sweet, I thought that was ridiculous.

Aaaanyway... Alhamdulillah, I am so happy for him. Cik abang cincin ni memang jiwang yang puitis punya. Malangnya, kalau kita tak ada hati kat dia, benda-benda puitis tak bertempat ni mengganggu jiwa dan menaikkan rasa menyampah. I am so please that he finally found the one that would appreciate all his poetic words.

Selamat Pengantin Baru!

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Ketegaq

Kadang-kadang bila berurusan dengan orang-orang dari negara asing, ada kumpulan tertentu yang rata-rata berkongsi sifat yang sama. Aku cuba mengelak untuk melabel mereka dengan stereotype.
Tapi....
Tak dapat dinafikan mereka ni ketegaq! Degil nak mamfus.
Pada mereka, pendapat merekalah yang betul.
Kerja merekalah yang perfect.
Semua orang lain tak pandai.
Semua orang lain tak tahu.
Kau sajalah yang betul.

Sekarang, aku tak pelik kenapa negara korang tak berhenti berperang.




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